Pep Talks: Real Conversations for Real Growth
Real talk for every woman who is rising, leading, or figuring out who she is becoming — at any age, in any season of life.
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Find Your Path, Not Just a Job
Exploring different paths is part of the journey. Whether it’s trying new fields, making mistakes, or changing directions, every step helps you discover what truly fits. Focus on aligning your career with your passions, values, and lifestyle, and remember: Your path is uniquely yours to travel.
Living Life Authentically: Stop Listening to the Machine, Start Listening to Yourself
The world will tell you what to wear, what to eat, what to buy, and who to be. But here’s the truth: YOU ARE ENOUGH. 💖
I’ve been there—feeling like I didn’t fit in, like I wasn’t enough. I tried to belong, but it wasn’t me. And you know what? That’s okay. Being outside the group taught me to value myself for who I really am—quirks and all. 🌟
GRL, you don’t need to follow the machine. Follow your instincts. Chase your passions. Be you. And never forget: boundaries are beautiful. 💪
Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Freak Out: How to Handle Adrenaline Like a Boss
Flight, Fight, Freeze, and Freak Out are all responses to adrenaline surges. It’s that feeling when someone jumps out and scares you, or when you’re able to walk on stage. It’s that surge of electricity. It’s not always your friend, but there’s ways to tame it. Read here!
Keep paving the road…
Last night, I stepped onto the pickleball court as the only woman in a group of 11 men. When I arrived, the owner of the facility—a kind and inspiring woman—told me she’d been excited to meet me. She admired that I was holding my own in a male-dominated space, and her words stayed with me throughout the game.
Not another body positivity post…
Being a female athlete isn’t just about victories or stats—it’s about embracing what your body can do in a world that sometimes focuses too much on how it looks. In this post, we dive into inspiring stories from Audi Crooks, Drew Afualo, and Ilona Maher, who redefine strength and athleticism, alongside my own journey of learning to celebrate my body. Whether you’re battling insecurities, dealing with student-section criticism, or navigating self-doubt, this article will remind you why your body is your greatest tool. Read more to rise above the noise and reclaim your power!
Crushing Finals: Your Ultimate Survival Guide
Finals season is here, and while it can feel overwhelming, it’s totally possible to conquer your exams and projects without sacrificing your sanity. With the right strategies, mindset, and a little bit of self-care, you’ll come out on the other side stronger (and maybe even proud of yourself!). Here’s your go-to guide for absolutely crushing finals.
Powered down, to recharge.
Yesterday, anxiety had me completely unsettled—my brain wouldn’t stop racing, my clothes felt uncomfortable, and I couldn’t focus. But by turning off my phone at 6 p.m., being mindful and present with my family, coloring, and going to bed early, I found calm and clarity. Waking up refreshed, I realized how small changes can make a big difference. Read about my experience and how you can try it too on The GRL Initiative!
How to Use Your Sundays to Make Your Week Amazing: Tips for Female Student-Athletes
Discover how to transform your Sundays into a powerful foundation for a successful week! This guide for female student-athletes shares practical tips for planning your schedule, prepping meals, and organizing gear. Learn how to partner with your parents and find moments of joy to recharge before the busy week ahead. Whether it’s reflecting on your goals, filling your joy bucket, or setting yourself up for success, these strategies will help you feel confident, prepared, and ready to tackle anything Monday brings.
Finding Belonging in a Third Space
Not home. Not school. But that third space.
Where do you go to feel seen, valued, and appreciated? For Vermont’s student-athletes, having a coach or advisor who cares about them as people (not just athletes) can change everything. A third space is where you can truly be yourself, and if it doesn’t exist yet… here’s your sign to create it.
Start the club. Build the team. Find your people. Your vibe will attract your tribe.
✨ Need inspo? We’re talking all about third spaces and how to create your own over on the blog (link in bio). Let’s build communities where we all belong.
January: A Complex Month for GRLs
It’s a month of big goals and fresh starts… but it’s also dark, cold, and exhausting. 😅 Let’s be real: the pressure to have it all figured out can be a lot. So here’s your reminder: it’s OK to rest. It’s OK to take it slow. And it’s 100% OK to not buy into the “New Year, New Me” hype.
💡 Need some inspo? We’re sharing realistic ways to make January less overwhelming over on our blog (link in bio). Spoiler: small steps > big pressure.
Moms Deserve More Credit: Celebrating the CEO of Our Lives
How to Stand Up for Yourself: Advocating for Your Needs
Parent Post: GRL Dads… You matter.
Dads, your role in your daughter’s life goes far beyond the sidelines. She needs you to see her as a person first, an athlete second, and to be there for her—always. From celebrating her worth beyond her performance to leaning in and listening without judgment, your love, actions, and words shape her confidence and self-belief.
This post dives into what your daughter truly needs from you: a consistent, supportive presence, someone who helps her see her value, and a dad who shows up every day with love and respect.
Feeling Like the New Kid Again: Embracing Uncertainty in New Situations
We’ve all been there—stepping into a new group, team, or situation and feeling like the odd one out. It’s uncomfortable, but it’s also a normal part of growth. Even as a 40-something woman working in sports, I find myself feeling unsure in new spaces all the time.
The key? Learning how to ground yourself and embrace the discomfort. Here are some of the strategies I use
Buzz word: Mental Health, what is it?
Your mental health matters as much as your physical health. 💛 Some quick tips: rest isn’t lazy, set boundaries that protect your energy, practice gratitude, move your body, and surround yourself with uplifting people. It’s okay to not be okay. Take care of yourself and don’t hesitate to reach out for help—you’re never alone. 🫶 Let’s normalize prioritizing mental health, one step at a time. #MentalHealthMatters #SelfCare #GenZ"
Parent Post: Who is GenZ?
A quick video and blog about Who Gen Z is so that parents are able to understand their student-athlete more and how to support them.
Self-Care for Introverts: Recharge After a Social Marathon
Introverts, this one’s for you! If you’ve just endured a weekend full of social events and nonstop energy, it’s time to recharge. Learn how to protect your energy, embrace quiet time, and prioritize self-care without guilt. From solo walks to saying “no” when you need a break, this guide will help you reset and feel like yourself again.
➡️ Read more to discover practical tips for recharging and thriving as an introvert. 💕 #SelfCareIsKey
Building Open Communication: Creating Safe Spaces for Your Daughter
Parenting a Gen Z athlete means balancing support, guidance, and tough decisions—all while creating a space where your daughter feels safe to be vulnerable. This blog explores how to foster open communication, build trust, and ensure your daughter knows she’s valued for who she is, not just her performance.
➡️ Read more to learn actionable tips on listening, modeling vulnerability, and making your relationship her greatest support system. 💕✨
What Your Athlete Really Needs From You (Hint: It’s Not More Critiques)
Your daughter doesn’t need another coach or critic—she needs you. This heartfelt blog dives into the pressures Gen Z female athletes face and what they truly need from their parents: unconditional love, support, and a safe space to grow. Learn how to shift from offering critiques to celebrating effort, listening without judgment, and being her biggest cheerleader.
➡️ Read more to discover how you can strengthen your bond and help her thrive both on and off the field. 💕✨
Daring to Be Bold: Putting Yourself Out There Even When It’s Not Always Sunny
Have you ever found yourself in a room where your voice felt small, where raising your hand felt like an act of courage? I have. It’s not easy putting yourself out there, especially when the odds feel stacked against you. But daring to be bold—raising your hand, speaking up, and showing up—is how we create change, even when it’s uncomfortable.
In this post, I share a deeply personal experience about stepping into a room where I didn’t quite fit, trying to contribute, and facing the frustrating reality of being unseen. It’s a reminder that forging a path forward isn’t always sunny, but it’s necessary.