GRL Pep Talks: Real Conversations for Real Growth
Your go-to space for leadership, confidence, identity, team culture, and the everyday challenges young women and student-athletes navigate.
Not sure where to start? Here's how it works.
GRL Pep Talks are honest, research-backed pieces written by Dr. Lauren Young — educator, athletic leader, and founder of The GRL Initiative. Each one is designed to meet you where you are, whether that's figuring out who you are, leading under pressure, parenting a kid who's hard to figure out, or just trying to stop shrinking in rooms that weren't built for you.
Inside each Pep Talk you'll find personal essays, journal prompts and worksheets, deep dives into equity and belonging, and quizzes to help you reflect on who you're becoming.
Find your entry point: Browse the four collections below and pick the one that matches your season. Or scroll the full feed and let a title stop you — they're written to be honest about what's inside. Once you're in a post, click any category tag to find more pieces on that topic.
Choose Your Pep Talk Collection:
Find the words you need for the season you’re in.
Identity & Belonging
For the moments you’re figuring out who you are, where you fit, and how to grow into yourself — without shrinking to belong.
Mental Health & Burnout
For when life feels heavy, loud, overwhelming, or exhausting — and you need permission to be human, not perfect.
Girls in Sports & Equity
For athletes, advocates, and leaders working to build better systems, stronger pathways, and real access for girls.
Motherhood & Real-Life Leadership
For the women leading teams, families, careers, and chaos — learning that leadership is lived, not just performed.
When the Pep Talk Isn’t Enough
Sometimes the pep talk isn’t enough — not because you failed, but because you’re overloaded. Learn how to shrink your world, find the root cause, and take the next step forward.
From Appearance to Achievement: How Exercise Transforms Body Image
When I'm running, my body transforms from an object to be judged into a powerful vehicle of achievement. Discover how exercise shifts our focus from appearance to ability, and why this mental transformation is so valuable for those struggling with body image—even when race photos threaten to undo this progress.
How Running (and Life) is About Taking the First Step
Four summers ago, I wasn’t a runner. I had run one mile that season. Then, out of nowhere, a friend asked me to sub in for a 100-mile relay race. My first instinct? No way. But something inside me said, why not?
I showed up. I ran my segments. It wasn’t perfect, but I finished. And the feeling at the end? Unreal. That moment taught me something huge—you don’t have to be ready, you just have to start.
Now, running is my reset button. When my mind is busy, when I need space, when I need to feel strong, I put on my shoes and go.
Starting The GRL Initiative was the same way. I didn’t have all the answers, but I knew I had to start somewhere.
If there’s something you’ve been waiting for—a race, a dream, a challenge—just start. 💜