GRL Pep Talks: Real Conversations for Real Growth
Your go-to space for leadership, confidence, identity, team culture, and the everyday challenges young women and student-athletes navigate.
Not sure where to start? Here's how it works.
GRL Pep Talks are honest, research-backed pieces written by Dr. Lauren Young — educator, athletic leader, and founder of The GRL Initiative. Each one is designed to meet you where you are, whether that's figuring out who you are, leading under pressure, parenting a kid who's hard to figure out, or just trying to stop shrinking in rooms that weren't built for you.
Inside each Pep Talk you'll find personal essays, journal prompts and worksheets, deep dives into equity and belonging, and quizzes to help you reflect on who you're becoming.
Find your entry point: Browse the four collections below and pick the one that matches your season. Or scroll the full feed and let a title stop you — they're written to be honest about what's inside. Once you're in a post, click any category tag to find more pieces on that topic.
Choose Your Pep Talk Collection:
Find the words you need for the season you’re in.
Identity & Belonging
For the moments you’re figuring out who you are, where you fit, and how to grow into yourself — without shrinking to belong.
Mental Health & Burnout
For when life feels heavy, loud, overwhelming, or exhausting — and you need permission to be human, not perfect.
Girls in Sports & Equity
For athletes, advocates, and leaders working to build better systems, stronger pathways, and real access for girls.
Motherhood & Real-Life Leadership
For the women leading teams, families, careers, and chaos — learning that leadership is lived, not just performed.
Why Your Body Image Gets Worse When You're Stressed (And What Actually Helps)
From Appearance to Achievement: How Exercise Transforms Body Image
When I'm running, my body transforms from an object to be judged into a powerful vehicle of achievement. Discover how exercise shifts our focus from appearance to ability, and why this mental transformation is so valuable for those struggling with body image—even when race photos threaten to undo this progress.
When My Mental Managers Clock Out: Navigating Body Dysmorphia in Times of Stress
Body dysmorphia isn't always a constant state—for many, it's an unwelcome visitor that arrives when mental defenses are down due to stress or fatigue. This personal reflection explores the science behind why body image issues intensify during difficult times and offers evidence-based strategies for managing these challenging episodes. Featuring practical coping tools and reassurance for fellow travelers on this journey.
Calling truth to the lies.
Looking back, I don’t remember running around the softball field feeling proud of my athleticism or celebrating what my body could do. Instead, I remember feeling hyper-aware of what my body looked like. I carried that burden—the weight of lies other people placed on me—when I should’ve focused on the game. Read more to unlock the ability to call truth to the lies