GRL Pep Talks: Real Conversations for Real Growth
Your go-to space for leadership, confidence, identity, team culture, and the everyday challenges young women and student-athletes navigate.
Not sure where to start? Here's how it works.
GRL Pep Talks are honest, research-backed pieces written by Dr. Lauren Young — educator, athletic leader, and founder of The GRL Initiative. Each one is designed to meet you where you are, whether that's figuring out who you are, leading under pressure, parenting a kid who's hard to figure out, or just trying to stop shrinking in rooms that weren't built for you.
Inside each Pep Talk you'll find personal essays, journal prompts and worksheets, deep dives into equity and belonging, and quizzes to help you reflect on who you're becoming.
Find your entry point: Browse the four collections below and pick the one that matches your season. Or scroll the full feed and let a title stop you — they're written to be honest about what's inside. Once you're in a post, click any category tag to find more pieces on that topic.
Choose Your Pep Talk Collection:
Find the words you need for the season you’re in.
Identity & Belonging
For the moments you’re figuring out who you are, where you fit, and how to grow into yourself — without shrinking to belong.
Mental Health & Burnout
For when life feels heavy, loud, overwhelming, or exhausting — and you need permission to be human, not perfect.
Girls in Sports & Equity
For athletes, advocates, and leaders working to build better systems, stronger pathways, and real access for girls.
Motherhood & Real-Life Leadership
For the women leading teams, families, careers, and chaos — learning that leadership is lived, not just performed.
When Parenting Becomes Chronic Stress (And You Didn’t Even Know the Name for It)
I didn’t realize there was a name for what we were living inside. Supporting a neurodivergent freshman through ADHD, trauma, and adolescence had slowly shifted our home into a state of chronic stress — the kind that reshapes your nervous system, your relationships, and your sense of self as a caregiver. This isn’t just parenting exhaustion; it’s the quiet, relentless weight many families carry while still showing up with love, resilience, and hope.
The Parenting No One Talks About: Helping a Neurodivergent Teen Through a Spiral
Parenting a neurodivergent teen can feel like starting over every single day — sometimes every hour. When impulsive decisions pile up and your child seems unaware of how their behavior affects others, the mental load on caregivers becomes overwhelming. This GRL Initiative pep talk offers a compassionate, research-informed reminder that spirals aren’t failures — they’re moments that require support, structure, and grace for both the child and the adult walking beside them.
Parenting the Child You Can’t Figure Out (Even When You’re Supposed to Know Better)
Some days it feels impossible to be both the parent holding everything together at home and the leader expected to show up confidently at work. When parenting feels heavy, self-doubt can spill into every part of life — even the places that once brought joy. This honest reflection explores what happens when our inner critic takes over, and how small shifts in self-talk, grace, and persistence help us keep moving forward — even when we’re exhausted.
Supporting a Kid (or adult!) With ADHD During the Holidays (Without Accidentally Making It Harder)
The holidays can be magical—and totally overstimulating for kids with ADHD. This parent-friendly guide breaks down common traps (like Advent calendars and constant transitions), plus practical strategies for parties, travel, and downtime. Bonus: an ADHD-friendly gift guide that supports regulation, movement, and real-life executive functioning—without turning your living room into chaos.