Why the GRL Initiative Exists: A Mom’s Perspective
When I dreamed up the GRL Initiative, it wasn’t just an idea. It was a need. A lifeline. A way to reach those who might be searching for something bigger, something deeper, and something real. And I want to share why it came to life because, in some ways, it’s as personal as it gets.
Let me set the scene. I’m a mom of two boys—a 4-year-old who fills our days with curiosity and chaos and a 13-year-old navigating the rollercoaster that is middle school life. Every day, I have these heart-to-heart talks with my oldest about life, friendships, relationships, goals—all the things. I pour my heart into these conversations because I want so much for him to grow up thoughtful, kind, and self-aware. But you know how it goes: the eye rolls, the “I know,” or my least favorite “Huh?” and the vibe that says, “You’re the least cool person on the planet.”
It’s not that he doesn’t hear me—he does. But being a teenager means his world feels like it’s closing in, and sometimes, my words just don’t land. And honestly? That kills me.
But here’s the twist: I’ve had the absolute privilege of being there for other kids—specifically, the daughters of my friends. These young women, with their deep questions and raw emotions, have come to me for advice, trusted me to help them untangle their thoughts, and allowed me to cheer them on when they’ve needed a boost. And those moments? They’ve been magical. I’ve had this “big sister” or “cool aunt” energy that I know they needed—and it felt good. I also had these relationships in my teens and twenties to help guide me when I was lost, and the power there is unmatched.
It got me thinking: What if I could do this for more GRLs? What if I could create a space where those who don’t feel like they quite fit the mold could find connection, guidance, and encouragement? What if I could remind them that living authentically and with purpose is not just okay—it’s the most beautiful thing they could do for themselves?
So, to all the GRLs out there who might be feeling unseen or misunderstood, I see you. I am you. I know what it’s like to question where you fit in when you’re not interested in the popular activities or the pressures everyone seems to chase. I know what it’s like to crave something deeper—friendships with meaning, goals that align with your values, and a life that feels like yours instead of someone else’s blueprint.
The GRL Initiative was created for you. It’s a space to remind you that you’re not alone. That someone is here, cheering you on, giving you a pep talk when you need it, and helping you find the bigger picture when life feels heavy. I want to be that voice that says, “I see your effort, and I’m proud of you,” because those words can change everything.
And yes, I’ll keep trying with my oldest son, even if he rolls his eyes (because I’m his mom, and that’s just part of the deal). But the GRL Initiative is here to arm you—the mature, thoughtful, creative, and questioning souls—with the tools to live authentically, face challenges with courage, and build a life of deep meaning and purpose.
You’ve got this, GRLs. And I’ve got your back.
With love,
A Mom Who Gets It
